So, I'm a pretty honest person so I wanted to share the many different types of available women in Cebu and the surrounding islands. Many provinces have their own "vibe". I have to stay that I have met 1000's of women. Many by texting but I've also had many dates and a few Beautiful Pinay girlfriends.
Here's what I know.
Women are affected of course by their poverty level, educational status, dependents such as children, family and neighbors kids (who get taken care of but never adopted).
For example, my friend takes care of a 5-year old kid because his mother is poor and just keeps having children. Some women use birth control and some just don't care if they get pregnant. A form of bird control with some married couples is they just stop having sex. This causes a problem because their men end up cheating on them and the wife ends up single with kids and forever "separated." The courts frown on divorce and so do the dominant Catholic churches.
This leads to a 2nd major problem which is the amount of single Pinay mothers that have between one and three children to raise on their own or in a tiny cramped boarded house with too many people in the house. There are two problems with this scenario.
One is you can't spend the night with the mom if you date her and expect any privacy. Many homes have thin walls with curtain doors.Or curtain walls.
The second problem is she probably doesn't have air conditioning, also has street-dogs that loudly bark all night long and annoying roosters that wake up at 3 am verses 5 am. I sound frustrated because I've been there. I won't go back to that situation ever.
The third problem is that the annual daylight hours are 5am to 6pm because the Philippines is located above the Equator. So people wake up at 5 am to get a start on the day. You could also be woken up to three different music stations playing and a karaoke singer who can't sing.
You be lucky to get 3 hours of sleep if you take part in this type of Love Story. Mom's also typically do not have the energy to date, make love and are out of money or food quite often. It's tough to be a mom. Mom's typically have a very limited time to see you as well. Most moms can't even date. For some mothers, this is not the case. Family is first so her children come way ahead of your needs. Most mothers I tried to date seemed to have limited interest to have fun and that was with mom's wh were aged under 35.
So know you know the scoop on dating a mom. There are some pretty and available moms. It just takes a lot of time to meet them for a quality date as well as getting them to you at a decent hour.
Work Schedule/Availability: Many Filipino's have a tough working schedule. Many of the 18+ to 30 year olds that I met either worked 6 days a week and from 9pm to 6am. It's a brutal schedule because the Philippines is a global hub for telecom service reps for such things as Amazon, domestic utility bill issues and warranty/insurance claims.
This is why many Pinay's can text and speak very good English. So you have two choices. The employed girl who is exhausted when she gets off work to the unemployed/student pinay who has more time to spend with you. Many students are is school all day as well so be careful on that. Most students minimze dating since they take school very serious.
So the women from the unemployed or school status are now discussed.
College students are hard to date. Many self proclaimed students aren't even in school and escorts posing as students. If you are persistent then perhaps you can get an actual student girlfriend then you may be asked by her or her parents to wait to have a sexual relationship with her until after she graduates and you marry her. This is quite common.
It's bizarre but many girls who do save themselves for marriage later figure out they don't like sex or don't really care about the husbands needs. The wife's goals become baby production needs. So the husband or father of the children cheats which creates a huge amount of single moms range kids alone. My point would be to try and figure out how important an intimate relationship is to you before you decide to marry a Pinay. Many pinay girls grew up without a father so becoming a single mom is ok because mom said it's okay because mom had 4 kids with no father(s) ever involved. Much like in America.
I know how to get beautiful dates. There is a method that I have created, tested and I still use. One of my main reasons to move to the Philippines was the amount t of kind and beautiful available women. It allowed me choices I would never have in America.
I've had a few Pinay girlfriends and it was completely worth spending my life with them. The main reason I broke up with everyone of them was their lack of forward thinking skills. For example, I was going to pay for a girlfriends braces, her cracked tooth and her college fees.
This was after I had just got her passport for her and her scuba certification. We were fine for.5 months until I had to return to Caifornia for a month.Then she just overslept, didn't work and faded away eventually going back to making zero-income TikTok videos. She had her future planned out and a month before I left was excited about my financial help. I did nothing wrong but she had no forward thinking conception skills. It was quite bizarre but saved me money by avoiding my assistance to improve her impoverished life. She easily went back into comfort of poverty.
Is the Philippines worth dating or finding a wife?
Absolutely, but you have to avoid scams and understand the culture. You have to understand any costs that you will inherit if you marry her such as supporting her older unemployed parents. Jobs are hard to get in the Philippines so there are a lot of older and for unemployed seniors. The average Filipino salary is about $3218 US annually. The median salary is $13000 US.
The woman I've dated, loved and spent time with were very beautiful. Long hair, beautiful bodies, smiles, intelligent, carefree, singing, laughing, family-oriented Beauties.I honestly date women in the Philippines that are so beautiful they would be very difficult if not impossible to date if they were in American. The would also be meaner, self-absorbed and with higher debt. The love from a stunning Pinay Beauty is at a level very few men will experience. I'll never regret moving to Cebu.
If you decide to come out to the Philippines you should consider letting me help you set up dates. As well as, protecting you from scams and providing one-on-one dates. All new dates. Not escorts. Real women with real lives. .
Think about dating a Cebuan woman. The women I will introduce you to are some of the most beautiful and kindest in this every growing frustrating dating world. I know what I'm doing after years learning the Pinay way. The Philippines are awesome in many ways.
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